Loss Grief Joy Love

Whether expected or sudden, the death of a loved one is never easy. Find peace knowing their pain is over. Share love & joy 4 knowing them.

I know from whence I speak multiple times. It may be "easier" for some than for others but at the end of the day we must all figure out our own way to cope with loss & grief. The choice is always individual.

I believe that while a loss is felt deeply & the heart is truly broken, it will heal in time if allowed. I have found that the best way to allow healing is to remember the best about your loved one & let that love guide you. Honor them by sharing the joy they brought you with others.

It is not easy & there are times when the pain hits with full force. That is okay. Be with it. Let it flow. Be thankful that they were in your life for how else would have known such a love.

This is a choice I make on a daily basis. The pain of my losses varies daily, sometimes moment to moment but I realize that above all I have loved & been loved deeply.

May those who are hurt & grieving find some solace in my words. Aché.

©2009 Kim L. Ford

love

love with your heart.

your heart is love.

let love lead you.

©2009 Kim L. Ford

Racist Cartoon in the Post-Racial Obama Era. Really?

Today the NY Post ran a cartoon that depicts two cops shooting a chimpanzee and referring to the now-signed stimulus package. Care to guess what the cartoonist is trying to say?

Here's a link to the offensive cartoon: http://www.nypost.com/delonas/delonas.htm. Needless to say it's caused outrage among several people including Al Sharpton. So much for the post-racist era. Hah! Like it really exists.

I say let the paper know how you feel. Email them at letters@nypost.com or call 212-930-8000, press 8 for the operator to be directed to the complaint line. Here's my letter to the paper.

To Whom It May Concern:

I am outraged that images like this are still being published. This is disrespectful and an insult to all of us who are working towards a just society. A direct correlation is being made between President Barack Obama and the chimp that was shot. Come on, didn’t we leave this back in the fifties with the racist Tarzan movies? I find it hard to believe that there was no in-house comment about the content of the cartoon or that no one saw a problem. After all, this cartoonist has a history of homophobic cartoons. He along with the Post has been called on it (http://www.queerty.com/?s=delonas). Most likely the Post will hide behind it’s disclaimer and the right to free speech, but to disregard the tasteless content & context is naïve, which I believe the staff at the Post is not.

I am sure you’re being flooded with emails and phone calls. I just hope you realize that’s just the tip of the iceberg as most folks will not respond, but they will talk & post about it. After all, this is the NY Post in NYC. A public apology is in order along with pulling the cartoon. To do otherwise would be tantamount to slapping your current readers, many of whom are working class people of color, in the face. You must take action now.

In peace,
Kim Ford
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"When the Power of Love overcomes the Love of Power...the world will know peace" ~Jimi H