Whether expected or sudden, the death of a loved one is never easy. Find peace knowing their pain is over. Share love & joy 4 knowing them.
I know from whence I speak multiple times. It may be "easier" for some than for others but at the end of the day we must all figure out our own way to cope with loss & grief. The choice is always individual.
I believe that while a loss is felt deeply & the heart is truly broken, it will heal in time if allowed. I have found that the best way to allow healing is to remember the best about your loved one & let that love guide you. Honor them by sharing the joy they brought you with others.
It is not easy & there are times when the pain hits with full force. That is okay. Be with it. Let it flow. Be thankful that they were in your life for how else would have known such a love.
This is a choice I make on a daily basis. The pain of my losses varies daily, sometimes moment to moment but I realize that above all I have loved & been loved deeply.
May those who are hurt & grieving find some solace in my words. Aché.
©2009 Kim L. Ford
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